The passive aggressive trick I

I told people that I'd stop talking about this ass but for the sake of the first entry, the bitching shall continue.

I met this guy last April. (Hapa boy, single, no baggage i.e. kids or crazy exes, just finished his Phd and last Fall became a doctor. Age: 28) He moved back home to live w/ his parents in the Aloha state last May. We became really good friends and spoke almost everyday. It was refreshing to have met a guy with a good head on their shoulders and someone I could relate to at a similar level. He was always very positive, motivating and comforting. *key word here ladies, WAS* Come September, our conversations got deeper etc. Thought we were on the same level. He wanted me to make sure that if I meet someone or begin to date anyone to let him know. Vice versa.

Me, being the honest, open person I am, told him how our mutual friend wanted to introduce me to his other friend. (let's call him person X) And since ass knew him, I wanted to get his opinion of what type of person he was- just a heads up. Now, mind you, X is from Man Jose. Ass tells me "humbly, he's not your type" and tells me how he met him at a hostess bar etc. I tell him that I'll probably meet him anyways for the sake of our mutual friend. I mean, I'm not gonna date the guy! November rolls around. X asks me to go out for some drinks. You know me! I'm always down! I go. And those that know me, know I can drink so I'm not worried that he'll try to get me hammered. ($200! holla!) While I'm out with X, ass just so happens to call. True, I could have ignored the call but WHY? He'd find out and it would be worse. I had nothing to hide. I answer and tell him where I'm at & with who. I tell him I'll call him later- which I do, 2am here = 12am HI time. He doesn't answer. When we do finally talk, he doesn't mention anything is bothering him etc.

Now it's December, we don't talk as much but he still tells me how much he misses me etc. I feel like we're drifting apart until he sends me a thoughtful xmas gift. I think, yeah, maybe he is just busy. I trust him. Now, New Year's eve! He calls me to spit more sweet nothings and I tell him that I'll be flying there to celebrate our birthdays, visit my family and party w/ friends! He's surprised and happy. After new year's he stops returning my texts and no more sweet talk.

The day I arrive, he calls me right after he gets off from work so we can hang out. We hang out on 2 occassions before my birthday and if he had something to tell me, he COULD and SHOULD have. ON THE NIGHT OF MY BIRTHDAY, HE BRINGS HIS FRIEND - A GIRL. I kinda felt something was going on but thought that he would tell me if it were serious etc. I HOLD IN THE PAIN and THE HUMILATION until the end of the night when it's just me and my friends. HE INTRODUCES HER AS A FRIEND AND TELLS HIS BOYS TO CALL HER A FRIEND. Too bad, so sad, we got along soooo well! You'd think we were best friends! My feelings for her are genuine. But.....to my surprise at the end of the night, she tells me that ass is her BOYFRIEND! SINCE NOVEMEBER!!!!! **I didn't cause drama, it's not her fault- CHICKS B4 DICKS! ** I ignored ass the rest of the night and partied with his girl & our friends. And boy, was he nervous everytime we left together!



After that evening, he's called me numerous times (by force from his boys) but I haven't spoken to him. So he left his SORRY ASS APOLOGY ON MY VOICEMAIL. "I just wanna say that I am sorry for everything that has happened." WTF?!!! Sorry for "everything" WHAT THE FUCK IS "EVERYTHING?!" TELL ME. I want details. OBVIOUSLY, YOU ARE SO CAUGHT UP!

*his friends have since told me that he really was into me but the reason for being with her--- "she's here and you're there." FUCK THAT! I THOUGHT WE WERE ON THE SAME LEVEL. ASShole doesn't know what wants.... if it was just a piece, who cares but to make her your GIRLFRIEND..so soon???

Ass..here's a "trophy pic" you'll nevah get ta see!!!



Wow. That was long. Sorry to bore you with all the details. And that's my recent story. GUYS THAT AVOID THE SITUATION OR ISSUE BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID. WE DON'T WANT SISSIES ANYWAY! Neeeeeeexxxxxxt!!!!!